Tag: porn

  • Ways to do sex work – part one (cam work)

    Ways to do sex work – part one (cam work)

    My occasional series about selling sex originally coincided (until my blog was rearranged) with the impending release of a film about cam models (ladies who interact with paying and non-paying internet customers via web cams). It is kind of like live porn, being largely user-directed and featuring a solitary actor (it is quite complicated to…

  • Men’s fantasies – Porn Star Experience (PSE)

    Men’s fantasies – Porn Star Experience (PSE)

    It’s the fantasy of a lot of men to fuck a porn star or fuck like a porn star but sadly it is beyond reach for most guys.  However if you visit a sex worker who specialises in PSE, it’s like you can direct and star in your very own porn movie with a very…

  • Men love to look

    Men love to look

    How to hold the attention of men* There comes an interesting time in the lives of young women when we realise the effect that our body has on men.  It could be when out of the corner of our eye, we see that male head is turned as we totter across the road in our…

  • Don’t give me culture!

    Don’t give me culture!

    I share my favourites from the world of culture: film, music and the arts on my “keeper” list. These ones are all erotic and/or sex work related. My favourite typecast actress would have to be Anita Morris, who normally plays the horny redhead. You will recognise her from the She Was Hot (Rolling Stones) video;…

  • What gets women off (part one)

    What gets women off (part one)

    It’s been widely concluded that it’s harder for women to get aroused than men, and that it takes longer. That some women lose interest in sex. That some women have a lower libido overall than most men. The thing is with (straight) men, a glimpse of bosom or derrière seems to be able to do…

  • My experiences with celebrities (as a hooker)

    My experiences with celebrities (as a hooker)

    Disclaimer: I have never seen Charlie Sheen as a working girl Some celebrities, like Charlie Sheen, are well-known for having enjoyed the services of sex workers, and others have managed to keep it on the down low.  It’s not as if Mr Sheen outed himself, but he doesn’t seem overly bothered that it is out…

  • Fifty Shades of Fucked Up*

    Fifty Shades of Fucked Up*

    NOT a scene from the film but these are the male and female leads.  *”Fifty Shades of Fucked Up” is how the character Christian Grey describes himself. I did not leave the cinema totally disappointed, I have sat through worse films than Fifty Shades of Grey.  This is a nice little film.  It is ok. …

  • Sublime Pleasure – how long is a piece of string?

    Sublime Pleasure – how long is a piece of string?

    Amore e Psiche by François-Édouard Picot (Painted 1817, Paris)* “How many times did you come?” is a question that many men wonder or even ask ladies after they have ascertained that their partner did actually orgasm while they had sex.  However, orgasm for women is often not that cut and dried. I’ve been curious about…

  • Sex work, objectification and being a MILF

    Sex work, objectification and being a MILF

    Not quite like this, but a still from a funny scene from a great 80s movie, Hotel New Hampshire which is so hot, youtube makes you login to see it.  You must watch it.  It illustrates my post well.  Excuse the foreign subtitles. Every hooker has clients come to her that she prefers over others.…

  • Lay back and have some fun

    Lay back and have some fun

    Or get on top and have some fun, whatever the case may be. It’s officially official.  I’ve started work as an escort and I’m available now. Introducing … Amber O’Hara, independent escort, Christchurch, New Zealand.