Amber’s writing
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Why would you want to be a sex worker?
Read more: Why would you want to be a sex worker?Veronica Veronese* by Dante Gabriel Rossetti painted in 1872 with Alexa Wilding as the model. It is believed to represent “the artistic soul in the act of creation”. I’ve always liked new beginnings although of course…
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Men who love breasts
Read more: Men who love breastsThe bosom of Amber O’Hara I have my share of “breast men” who call on me, (which is lucky because I’ve always thought my derriere is not really anything to write home about). For these…
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Celebrating erotic red hair
Read more: Celebrating erotic red hairAs I have mentioned in previous blog posts, even though in society there are often disparaging remarks made about natural redheads, there are certain men who have a preference for redheads and find us extremely…
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Loving relationships: can a sex worker have it all?
Read more: Loving relationships: can a sex worker have it all?“I loved you since I knew ya, I wouldn’t talk down to ya”…* I’ve known sex workers since I began working as a teenager who have been in long term relationships with people since before…
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Dear Baby Hooker…
Read more: Dear Baby Hooker…Congratulations! You’ve recognised that you can put a value on something that there is a bit of a demand for and decided to become a sex worker. Here are some things that I’ve gleaned over…
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Are you old enough?
Read more: Are you old enough?Still from the music video of Dragon’s Are You Old Enough? The legal age to be a sex worker in New Zealand is 18 and most sex workers will not accept clients under 18. …
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Fear of Fifty
Read more: Fear of FiftyFlidais, my favourite Celtic Goddess, of a voracious sexual appetite Part of us wants to love like the goddesses — coldly and capriciously. Part of us owes allegiance to Kali, eating her lover and attaching his…
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Where to from here?
Read more: Where to from here?Amber O’Hara not ready to turn her back on sex work … yetIt’s hard to believe that it’s almost a year since I embarked again on the sex work journey with certain financial goals in…
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Slightly kink – English
Read more: Slightly kink – EnglishEnglish is not a term that is commonly used to describe caning and other parallel activities, but apparently it used to be and I feel it is quite obvious where that term came from, for…
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Slightly kink – Greek
Read more: Slightly kink – GreekThe tiniest bit of what I do is slightly kink, so if you get slightly squeamish about anything that is not totally straight you may want to skip this post. Because it’s about anal.…
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Slightly kink – Japanese
Read more: Slightly kink – JapaneseI don’t know if it is a thing that japanese people* do – but we jokingly call sex while menstruating “Japanese”, referring to the fact that a large red puddle of blood on a white sheet…
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Who’s that talking about you?
Read more: Who’s that talking about you?Sharon O’Neill (right) who wrote the song Maxine with the actress who played her in the Australian version of the music video (which this image is taken from.) A few days after my Christmas day blog post…
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All hookers are crazy
Read more: All hookers are crazyLike many sex workers, Brigid was a goddess of contradiction. I do believe that, to a degree, due to the nature of the job, all hookers are slightly crazy. That’s because, among the many other…
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Who are my clients?
Read more: Who are my clients?Édouard Manet painting possibly representing clients and sex workers Some people are curious and I have been asked who my clients are. I suspect to make themselves feel better about their negative attitudes towards sex…
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Sex work, objectification and being a MILF
Read more: Sex work, objectification and being a MILFNot quite like this, but a still from a funny scene from a great 80s movie, Hotel New Hampshire which is so hot, youtube makes you login to see it. You must watch it. It…
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Touring Roundup
Read more: Touring RoundupThe Canterbury Plains from the air I have recently completed a wee bit of touring and I thought I would post a few thoughts here. A number of you read my post where I mentioned…
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Be nice to me, Invercargill (and Queenstown)
Read more: Be nice to me, Invercargill (and Queenstown)I, with two of my beautiful working girl friends, are lucky enough to be visiting Invers tomorrow, Friday and Saturday. I think it is my first time, ever, in my whole life that I have…
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Places I have worked part 3
Read more: Places I have worked part 3I’ve always hated this corny song, although this version seems tolerable. Play it while you read my post. A brothel next to a nunnery. Seriously, it was. There was a convent next door to Tudor…
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Places I have worked part 2
Read more: Places I have worked part 2London. London was a very strange town to find work in. Luckily I wasn’t desperate for money but I thought it would be interesting to check out the sex work scene, mainly so I could…
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Places I have worked part 1
Read more: Places I have worked part 1This is the first part in a series of reminiscences about places I have worked. I mentioned earlier that I had worked as a sex worker one summer as a teenager, back then when it…
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Places I have worked – how did I get into sex work?
Read more: Places I have worked – how did I get into sex work?Image: Wellington Harbour, where I entered into the sex industry as a ship girl Most people who get into sex work get into it initially for one reason and one reason only – they need…
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The money, honey part 2
Read more: The money, honey part 2Disclaimer: This lovely pile of dosh was not all earned by Amber O’Hara, neither is it indicative of an amount a “typical” sex worker could expect to earn on a daily basis in New Zealand…
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The money, honey part 1
Read more: The money, honey part 1It’s not that hard to go legit as a hooker, so I thought I would share a few things that I have found in case any other working girls who read my blog are…
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Trying out online advertising?
Read more: Trying out online advertising?Gif: early sex work images of Amber O’Hara, aged in late 40s, escort Since I have been advertising in the Press, I have been very happy with the lovely clients who have come to see…
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To the men who respond to my newspaper advertisements
Read more: To the men who respond to my newspaper advertisementsmy little advert Please don’t think that because I’m advertising in the Press or your free community newspapers, alongside the traditionally lower-priced but sometimes fictional Asian agency ladies, that I am also prepared to offer…
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Is it fun to be a sex worker?
Read more: Is it fun to be a sex worker?Is it fun to be a sex worker? My answer is yes, yes, yes and sometimes not so much. If you are considering doing it, you are likely to meet lots of men, most…
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Favourite lingerie – part 4
Read more: Favourite lingerie – part 4Channelling the good old-fashioned whore In a previous life, I like to think I would have worked in an old-fashioned bordello, like the lovely one in the film The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas. I just…
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Favourite lingerie – part 3
Read more: Favourite lingerie – part 3Amber O’Hara: trying to give the impression she is innocent by wearing white As is obvious, I’m no virgin, and I’m not really interested in doing the schoolgirl fantasy for anyone or anything like that,…
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Favourite lingerie – part 2
Read more: Favourite lingerie – part 2MILF feeling wild… The very first corset I bought was this red one. I don’t wear it so much now because it has got a bit “baggy” and has some strange bulges in parts, even…